Prior to our trip he’s been seeming run down, taking about how tired he is, looking in the mirror and commenting that he looks old and that his body is breaking down, and then the day he wanted to come to my place early to be with D4 here because he was tired and stressed. My friend commented that she thinks maybe he is getting tired of all of this, that maybe his new situation and life of freedom is losing its luster. Obviously I have no idea if there is any truth to it. But I did bolster my hope with it. Just being honest. I’m remaining cordially detached in his presence.
Being honest with yourself is really important. I see a lot of people here (self included) sometimes sounding like they are deluding themselves that they are fully detached. It shows good emotional balance to be in touch with everything going on.
Your H may be worn down, but as best as you can I would assume nothing of it and just validate
