Can you uses this as a starting point for some dirty texting or making her feel good texting?
That's a great idea.. and my W and i do that sort of thing, too, and it's fun (playful flirtation like that, particularly one that draws on an already fun/exciting/good experience, definitely increases the intimacy level), but... is now the time for that? His W made a secret foray into the online realm, again, and has possibly been entertaining flirtations from another man. In DB-ing, that's typically a scenario for distance, not pursuit. If they are in full-blown piecing and everything is AOK, that type of pursuit would be perfect. I'm thinking that's a great idea. but one that maybe he needs to consider keeping in his back pocket until this current question is resolved.
Just my two cents...
Steve, do keep in touch, here. You have a lot of folks who care about you and your sitch chiming in here, and we'll all be pulling for you wanting to know how things are progressing and how you're doing.
Hang in there, man.
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
