a good 180 for me is to observe this thing from afar..., but in the past I've not been patient enough to observe and see how far it would go.
I believe this is your best choice right now. Observe and collect Intel. At some point, you will know what you are truly dealing with, and then you can take the appropriate action.
This quote stands out "Our job as the man is to protect the relationship if it is important." I believe it is important to take actions BEFORE she crosses your line of no return.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
