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Originally Posted by hoosjim
Hey, just noting for the record if the moderators are watching, there is a superfluous paragraph in my post, above. I missed the editing "window" and then did a poor job of explaining my edit to the moderators with the "report" tab and you only get one shot at that.

My third paragraph beginning with "If she is not currently in an affair..." can be deleted, as the edited text for that paragraph is already in the preceding paragraph. If y'all are ambitious (Cadet or whoever is on the job today) you could also put a paragraph break in what is currently that very long second paragraph at this point:

"...with her online meet-ups, etc etc. [PARAGRAPH BREAK]

If she is not currently in an affair, and not currently wayward, and is still indeed committed to reconciling with you and being in the MR, then"

Thanks, and sorry for any confusion.


Thanks hoos!! Awesome stuff here. Lots to think about and consider. I need to pray hard, and I agree we have many parallels. I'm thinking of going the back off approach, and then when she asks I'll take artista's approach of asking her if there is anything she'd like to tell me. As I said originally, if I go there direct route she may just shut down my one avenue to spy. The PC being logged off is a huge red flag by the way. She was not logging off that for all these months.

I will definitely take action at some point. My only concern is stopping an affair before it starts. If I have to do that, do I really want to stay with someone like that?

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018