Hey, just noting for the record if the moderators are watching, there is a superfluous paragraph in my post, above. I missed the editing "window" and then did a poor job of explaining my edit to the moderators with the "report" tab and you only get one shot at that.

My third paragraph beginning with "If she is not currently in an affair..." can be deleted, as the edited text for that paragraph is already in the preceding paragraph. If y'all are ambitious (Cadet or whoever is on the job today) you could also put a paragraph break in what is currently that very long second paragraph at this point:

"...with her online meet-ups, etc etc. [PARAGRAPH BREAK]

If she is not currently in an affair, and not currently wayward, and is still indeed committed to reconciling with you and being in the MR, then"

Thanks, and sorry for any confusion.

H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18

"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7

"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3