Thanks to all the advice. At the end of the day I know I have got to just move on. Taking care of myself is the most important thing.
I am meeting with the lawyer today for advice going forward. He can tell me how best to protect myself and my family. Everything is so crazy when going through all of this and it's very scary. So many things go through your mind about the whole process.
She will be super angry once I confront her and not sure she will get over her anger due to what she has done. This will make the whole process much more difficult. I know that I have got to be strong and firm going forward. I will not allow myself to be walked on or used as a doormat.
What is comical in the whole situation is that she makes me feel like I am the crazy one here. Absolutely no respect for me at all.