Steve. I've been reading on your sitch. We were giving the "homework" about objective which we will work towards. Reading about piecing is the reason why I'm struggling with the decision. I'm not 100% sure myself if I even want this. I'm now going through something new. I've come to terms that we arenot a married couple anymore. All of this now blindsided me. I wasn't expecting anything like this to happen. I was quite fine with the fact that I'm divorced. I still am. And what it comes to XW...she needs to go through the R she has been in now, our M and the R before me. It's a rocky road...
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.