And I would add, and hazard a guess, here, that Sandi would agree, that engaging in or even entertaining such a flirtation is seriously disrespectful to you and to the MR (and, actually, to herself) and can only serve to feed or reawaken a wayward mindset in her. I think it has to be stomped out and stomped out hard, much as artista in my thread today describes her own husband's response to her slip ups after they had started reconciling.

I really hope she chimes in here, too, and that Sandi2 stays close...


H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18

"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7

"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3