12 days sober is tricky.. good that she seems sincere and in therapy
just some thoughts
If she is serious about getting away from OM and staying sober there are halfway houses to help her transition into sober living AA will give her support and guidence and hopefully she will stay sober
Either way, There is Alanon for the spouse(highly recommend) so you can get support and learn how to live with a sober alcoholic Just because they get sober...does not always make it an easy road- and many will relapse or continue to have struggles for times to come
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow