Not "fixing" is what I find the most challenging. I always figure there must be a way to turn this around but I'm sensing that doing nothing (but validating and working on myself) is likely the best option. Even then, we may not make it back.
Last week I invited her to join me and S2 at the park. She couldn't make it but she seemed thankful that I asked and was thinking about her. Put a heart at the end. I'm debating between more manipulative behaviour or genuine thanks. I guess I need to not worry about either answer and just keep on. But I've read to continue doing what works so I invited this evening and she plans on coming.
Since there is no clear evidence of an A, should I ask her to join (on a limited basis) now and then? Or wait until she asks to join us?
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
