Thanks AS! I failed to mention that I'm still a little tentative about entering into a serious relationship. It's been over a year since BD, and I'm mostly ready. It's not so much that a fear hurting the new girl. It's more than I know if I enter into this relationship, in my mind I've ended any chance for reconciliation with my XW. If I do enter into this, the option for reconciling just won't be there anymore, if that makes any sense.