I believe there is a void that you can fill. Do you dirty text your wife?
I am starting with my woman right now:
Her:"network down at work" Me:"Hopefully you have other things to do" Her:"I do, but not very productive" Me:"I guess I should distract you then..." Her:"Yes..." Me:"I like your hair style Sat night...very sexy..."
I will keep ramping up....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712