I agree - yes to no snooping.

I did it once but immediately regretted it. I'm in a slightly different position as I'm the one who was the betrayer. My W was the victim. I wanted to see what she'd been saying to people. I stopped myself after logging in to her iPad when I was in the house by myself. I was pleased I didn't look. Best not to know.


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020