Finally! I was on pins & needles waiting to hear something.
I'm relieved to hear the conversation went well and that you feel better about her.
It does seem to match with what Artista was saying about herself.
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I think we have appropriate limits in place... Like i said i don't go there without her any more, but i am curious from the women here: How good is y'all's "sixth sense" about such things, or does jealousy tend to render it over-active?
Women can read other women......especially when that other woman is looking a certain way at our man! Oh yes, honey........out sixth sense is very aware of what that hussy is doing.
Some women are jealous if another woman starts doing something we women all recognize in other women, it might make us jealous.........it kind of depends on how secure we feel. I think some jealousy comes into play for the wife in how her H responds to the hussy. I mean, to us it is so obvious when the OW is making eyes at him, even watching him when OW thinks he isn't noticing, flirting, touching his arm, over-laughing at his unfunny jokes, complementing, or whatever. When the H acts as if he is dense and doesn't see what OW is really doing.......and laughs at us if we bring it to his attention.......it makes us angry. If we say something to him about the OW's behavior, and he accuses us of over reacting, feeling jealous or imagining it............then it makes us angry. And, if he just eats up the OW's attention.......and afterwards, talk about how "nice" she is..........it makes us angry. And, don't even think of flirting back with that hussy.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!