C,

I really don't know what to say to you anymore. Did you really think acknowledging the anniversary was going to make her melt and run back to your arms? You can't play family with her, be her farm hand and her therapist and then go no contact for two days and not answer her routine questions. You're inconsistencies are going to are likely just to piss her off. Don't get me wrong it's ok to piss her off but only when you're commanding respect.

I really wish you would actually try DB but apparently you know better then AS, Sandi, Joejoe, Neffer etc.

Lastly I saw your post on Kikos thread and he gave you great advice. Retroville is not for your situation.