I am very confused on what to do. My w is going away on Monday for 4 days. Where do I stay in the house? Do I stay in the master bedroom? Or the basement couch? It smells down there and like mildew. I hate this!!! My own house and I feel like a stranger!!!!
All of you were so right. Should have never left and gave her that power. I am so mad at myself!!! Mr. Niceguy has done nothing but set me back!!!
Do you want to move back in? This is a good opportunity.
I know it is but she already started to refinance. So one she refinances it won’t be my house any longer anyway. Should be done real soon. So I don’t feel like there is a point to. When I would have to move right back out.
As far as where I am going to sleep, it will be wherever I want to.
Last 2 days have been rough. I went away Saturday and Saturday night I got a call from my w that my dog was not doing well. My dog had to be put down. She was 16 years old. And of course because I wasn’t around I just keep hearing how hard it was for the kids to go through this. I just validate that it is hard for the kids to experience it. I’m tired of her complaining that she had to take care of it. I was away for one night, like I knew that was going to happen. Again, not that it matters but again I’m painted as the bad guy because I wasn’t around. Meanwhile she just left for 4 days. So she can go away for 4 days I am gone 1 night and I am bad? Again it doesn’t matter what she thinks or says just tired of the double standard. I am exhausted of this “new” life. I was just watching the movie click and would love to fast forward 2 years. Maybe by that point my life would be better.
M:42 XW:41 T:19 M: 15 D:13 S:10 BD: 8/10/18 Moved out: 8/18 Moved in: 9/18/18 Moved out: 4/22/19 D papers signed 11/4/19 D final 3/18/20
