Kirsty,

We must have posted at the same time.

Why aren't you fighting for me? Why aren't you dancing the dance? Why aren't you pursuing me for all you are worth?

Me, me, me, me, me.

If you have to answer "I'm dealing with this in my own way. I do believe that our M is worth saving, I'm sorry that you don't feel the same" End of discussion. Don't get drawn in.