Yes I did wonder whether that he was doing it because of his own actions.
From the moment I open my eyes he is there again asking why I’m not fighting for the R or showing any affection. It’s getting hard to answer. He said there is no glimpse of it changing. He wants affection and I have withdrawn it.
This in itself is ironic as he hasn’t wanted me to even breathe near him since May! I have sorted the money thankfully but I didn’t want to cry in front of him and I did.
It’s hard to know if he’s serious about our R. And he’s avoided he question I probably shouldn’t have asked.
“Do you want to work on the R?”
“I don’t think it can be worked on”
Actually that’s probably a no isn’t it. He wants me to put the effort in to him but not do anything himself.
He says he hasn’t met up with her since coming home from vacation but who knows.
