D4 and I spent the weekend away with some other moms and kids, it was nice to get away, have some fun and try to clear my head a bit. Before we left, I had offered for H to have some extra time with D4 once we got back, as he was missing 2 of his days because of our trip. He was appreciative and asked if we weren’t back too late maybe he’d come when we got home on Sunday (today). I told him I wasn’t exactly sure what time we’d be back but that would be fine with me. I assumed he’d be in touch to get our eta. Yesterday afternoon he texted me that since he didn’t know what time we’d back he made other plans, and he’ll see us Monday. This was really upsetting to me. The main reason I was upset was that just a couple of days ago he was getting ready eyed talking about wanting to be more involved in D4s life. And here is an opportunity to see her after she’s been gone for 3 nights, and he figured he’d just make other plans. It’s baffling to me and it breaks my heart for D4. It makes no sense in regards to the way he talked about this topic so recently. I was really upset, but I just responded “ok, that’s fine. FYI I had already told her she was going to see you, but I’ll let her know it will be Monday instead”. He responded: “oh f***, ok. Thanks for letting know”. I can’t make sense of it but it really bothers me, mainly on behalf of my daughter. UGH.
