Personally, I would let her initiate AT LEAST one more time. You focus on being attractive.
When I initiate with my woman, and get "turned down", I wait until she initiates. I focus on non-sexual touches, I build up the tension. I do things that turn her on. I help get her in "the mood".
Was there kissing involved? Did she "make out" with you?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712