Originally Posted by ozman
Ok. I want to finish the reply from yesterday. But I need ADVICE STAT. Her shoulder was hurting a lot last night. We went out with a couple friends. We got home and went to bed. She winced when she got in bed. I reached over and gave her a nice massage. I was waiting for the recoil. It didn’t happen. I finished. Rolled over to go to sleep. She said thank you and and sounded genuinely thankful.

This morning. We both wake up. It give her another massage. Am about to get up and she initiates. We had sex. I was VERY surprised.

I don’t know where to go from here
Glad to hear.

What you are doing is working. Keep doing what works.


Hopefully you get another opportunity. If so, be different in bed. Not too different, but make it a pleasant surprise for her.

For example, if you always score the first touchdown, let her score two before you score.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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