WW: “So OM3 is ignoring me now. It irritates me that he gets to control when we speak and when we don’t.”
That's your clue right there! No, I'm not saying you should respond to her texts so she doesn't get irritated. I'm saying don't respond b/c it DOES! If OM3 was eagerly responding to her texts and showering her with attention, do you think it would bother her that "he gets to control when they speak and when they don't"? Of course not! She would be looking for OM4.
Don't give her the satisfaction. Besides, you have too much self-respect to listen that mess.
BTW, notice how she throws around that word "control".
This woman is out of control, period.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Besides, you have too much self-respect to listen that mess. 