My Story

[joejoe1]

BB,

We know the feeling, you are feeling. Give yourself distance from your WW.

I had to find proof as well. And I found all the proof I needed. Pics, messages and all.

I confronted my WW immediately. I woke her out her sleep as soon as I saw the proof. You don't have to do that, but for me, my WW was going to know why I started to distance myself from her. She was a cheater and now she knew I knew she was a cheater.

When you confront her with the evidence, the first thing she's going to do is, try and blame you, switch the subject. Most likely, she will say, "why were you going thru my phone". You look at her, don't say another word, turn and walk away. She now know you know. Don't try to talk her out of what shes doing. Don't blame for anything, don't say another word and walk away. She will try to come and explain herself, you don't need no explanation for why she cheated. The only words you need to hear, is w remorseful sorry and she will stop. Explanations for why she cheated comes during recon. (If that's what you want).

Don't confront the OM, your WW made the choice to cheat. The more you mention his name the more power you give him in your WW mind. I rarely ever mentioned the OM's name. After my wife and I recon, my Wife told me that she was talking about me to the OM, and he would tell her, "you not over you husband are you, you are going to back to him". Look at them, her OM was jealous of me, ain't that funny. I didn't mention him and now he's upset with her, because she's talking about her husband.


Onward and upward