Persistent Endurance (Part 5)

[curtis7]

Do I let her explain? TBH, her words mean next to nothing to me. She needs to show me with actions. I’m thinking about going as dark as possible and only allowing contact if it’s an emergency related to the kids.

Maybe she doesn’t understand that one of my non-negotiables is that she is 100% NC with her APs. Is this the time to tell her?

I could say/text the following to buy some more time to think this through: “I don't know what I want, I have a lot of thinking to do and I think it would be best if we are out of contact for a while."

I would really appreciate feedback from some vets. Am I overreacting that she still wants to be in contact with OM3? I also know she was in contact with OM2 earlier this week. No idea if she is setting up physical encounters or just can’t break free of them emotionally and needs to keep them on the hook. If I allow her to explain and it’s peppered with lies, then I go completely dark and NC?