I'm in Canada and we have legal separation here. I'm asking for the house and my investments instead of full spousal because I really don't need her to pay full spousal and I'd rather have the house and my investments. Plus if she loses her job down the road then I don't have to worry about that part.
But yes, I will talk to my L about setting a date and filing the legal separation if I haven't heard from her.
I'm about 75% that she's seeing someone and I'm quite certain it won't last, especially once we finalize these payments as she is currently living above her means even without paying us anything. In my head though I just assume she's with someone else as otherwise her behaviour would really not make sense. Helps me to move on on my own too. Would I be open to reconciliation? I think so - but as others have noted, that door closes more each month. I'm certainly not attracted to the person she is right now but I do believe she's in there somewhere.
I appreciate the input!
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
