Welcome back Bluered. It sounds like things are moving along in your sitch...slowly...but moving along. Makes sense...as they say often on this board...this is a marathon, not a sprint. Not sure you should DO anything next other than what it is you’ve been doing. Keep the focus on you and what you need to do to move forward for you. Your H will do what your H will do.
Glad you have returned. There is lots of support here. (((HUGS)))