Adoption first. We are not adopting to help our situation or anything like that. We started that about 5-6 years ago and are finally about to finish our planned second and last adoption. I know you don't agree. Many may not. We've had our son since he was five days old. He's now almost 18 mos old. He's our son. He's not going anywhere.
I don't know all the ins and outs of adoption, are you saying that you are trying to adopt the son you already have custody of? I thought you meant you were initiating adoption of a new child. By all means if he's already in your custody and you are trying to adopt him then proceed, that's a different situation than I thought. Sorry for the mix-up.
