That all makes sense and i know if he does go I can rebuild from there.
I know the mood would be much better without him here. He is now back into trying to push my buttons, swearing in front of the kids, getting them to copy etc which he knows I don’t agree with. Kids are daughter (12) and sons (9,10) so they are probably knowing things aren’t right.
I think the pressure is on because he knows he needs to make choices. Does he leave his old work where she works or does he start the new job at my work. Both start back on 4 September. He came into my work on Monday to sort paperwork but since then things have gone downhill drastically. I haven’t commented on either job or mentioned them at all.
I managed to pick myself up for when he returned home.
I have finances in place ready for if he leaves. I know what I need to do etc
