Originally Posted by crdcheck
1) If W asks why I'm not really engaging with her (not coming into her house, talking to her at work, etc.) what do I say?


LH said exactly what I was going to, so "ditto".

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2) And if she says that it feels like I want nothing to do with her (or something to the effect that it feels like I'm moving on) what do I say?


Just nod and say "yes I can see how it might appear that way to you." That's answering her question while still being mysterious.

Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57