She isn't helping out financially in any way. Our child is with me 100% of the time (she visits here twice a week) and I'm going into more debt each month as my income (self employed) has been cut by 40% since I changed my schedule so I could look after my son.

I'm not ready to go down the D path yet but this separation should be fair to both sides financially. She avoids everything and I worry this could drag on even further and next thing you know I'm in much deeper debt.

H 37
W 31
S 2

T: 7
M: 4

BD 12/18
Separated 2/19
Living back together 04/06/2019
W Moved out again 07/15/2019