I’m really a fan of owning your sh!+... he’s not doing that. I know he doesn’t like conflict because he grew up in an abusive situation, but what he does is just as bad.
We just got news today that our S has a syndrome. It explains why he’s had issues with other symptoms over his life. I told H the update and he said he was happy.
I told him I was glad he was happy...
Then he wrote something else back saying that he’s glad he can get the proper care. I didn’t respond.
