Onward and upward!

[Ready2Change]

I view this more as detachment:

If I looked out my window and my wife was having sex with a stranger on the lawn I would:

A) Collapse in tears
B) Wonder what happened to my happy life
C) Wring my hands in despair
D) Go outside to confront them
E) All of the above

Or would you:

F) Think to myself "wow that is weird" and go back to what I was doing

I view Dropping the rope more about changing the emotional responses. Such as not arguing or controlling.

Of course, the reality is that both of us are actually causing the problem. Without realizing it, we are each encouraging the other to take the very stance we protest against.