I ditto KML. Be on the offensive by protecting what you do have. It is your share. He bought a house with another woman using your money! Who knows what else is coming? A new car for her? Jewelry? It costs a lot of money in fees to go after your share once he takes it.


Be proactive.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced