(((Hope))) It does get easier over time. I have the “his loss” feeling about 90% of the time and the other 10% comes in short waves that I just ride out. The bottom line is that you cannot control what other people do or say or feel... you can only control yourself. So that is where you need to put your efforts. It is okay to have hope...you don’t want to lose that ever. But hope for a better you and a better future and a better relationship...regardless of who it is with. Keep working on GAL and your PMA. (((HUGS)))