Yeah, I guess saying the divorce "messed me up" was not really what I meant. It did change me though. It changed me in a very big way. I'm definitely not the person I was. Not really a bad thing since I like who I am but it was a profound change....overly sensitive to so many things...animals and babies that can't speak for themselves...environmental issues...stuff like that.
I have decided to go ahead and get a kitty. (Maybe two.) I look to adopt one or two from the Arizona Humane Society. I've already talked to them and all I have to do is pick one or two that I see online and go down and pay for them and pick them up.
I hope to do it during the first week of September right after Labor Day.
I'll keep you posted.
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13