Divorce because I betrayed her trust - I regret it

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Update/Journal

I texted her tonight saying (a) hope her shoudler is feeling better and (b) hope she has a nice holiday.
I wanted to say "miss you" but didn't. That was hard.

She simply replied saying she will be fine, then asked me to hoover the house and empty the bins when she's gone!

I just replied "Yes I can do that." - is this ok validating?

I know she is being influenced by her sister and friends. I just hate that she's decided this in 3 months, ready to give up 8 years together and our beautiful house, and to willingly put herself in a really awkward position from a work point of view too.