Problem is I don’t have a way to find out except asking her.
Do not ask her. That is weak.
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My question is..... do I need to prove this to her with better DBing and patience before I Pursue the potential A thing.
It is not about proving it to her. It is doing it for you.
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She has been showing the slightest affections. Giving lots of compliments and such. The hugging back popping thing. The hand massage thing. I’m just trying to figure out if I’m being impatient. You guys know what I mean?
You are being impatient. You are also getting crumbs.
It is more than being patient, Read my tagline.
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