I have said it's not what I want.

I suggested that we stay separated maybe whilst I@m in therapy and we keep in touch and try to make things work over several months.

Her response - "I don't want to spend a year checking up on you. I'd keep thinking you'd be lying or keeping something from me. I'm young. I can find someone else."


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020