I don't think you messed up.

That FB thing - I'm not sure how deactivating an account makes you look single. That would be a strange consequence of simply going 'quiet' on FB for a while. So I'm not convinced by that.

You were pleasant and not aggressive on the phone; that is a positive thing for you. Don't worry too much about how he views that, though I understand it's really hard to not over-analyse everything they say/type to you. Jsut distract yourself with something.


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020