I’m going to get the books and read them. Should have already purchased them but I’ve been paying for counseling the past 2 months. The hardest thing is at night when we sit down for dinner with the boys. We talk and interact as if nothing is going on. It’s fine but I really need the book so I can learn how to handle these types of situations. I helped her prepare the food because she asked. It wasn’t much and only took me about 5 minutes.
Later afterwards she laid on the bed close to me for a while. She asked me if we would always be friends. I just answered yes.
The books can probably explain how to relate in all these situations.
AS: Thanks for the advice. You guys keep my spirit up during the day. It’s nice to have people that have been through this to help others. Thanks again guys.