Things were really bad. You were just using the wrong measuring stick. You are still using the wrong measuring stick.
Quote
But if she were to look at the big picture logically
She makes decisions based off of feelings and emotions. Two different measurement systems.
Quote
How she didn’t even want to try, not even once and making it work.
She did. You were the one not trying. She finally gave up. Then you woke up out of your fog.
Quote
I really miss my kids when I don’t have them..... She actually asked me when she goes away if I want the kids?
Then you take them every single time she offers. You document it. At some point, you then change up the custody agreement.
Quote
Just watching the wives with their husband makes me sad. I miss that dynamic I also realize my w wasn’t really like that with me. I see such love between these couples I miss it!!
So she wasn't like this with you but you miss it??
The million dollar questions:
How long do you want to keep punishing yourself? Are you still stand for your marriage?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
