I went to the gym, hung out with friends, dinner, etc. Saturday night, I decided to grab coffee with a friend and his friends. We sat at a coffee shop just chit chatting and I met a few other people.
That all sounds fine.
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I talked to a female and she seems interesting and invited me to hangout more this coming weekend.
This does not. What are your motivations for this? You are not even 3 months past BD, there is no way you're ready to introduce another woman into your life. You've got a lot of growth to do yet.
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Than she ask what I did, the female came up as I was telling her about my week than she got all frustrated and emotional.
Calling this other woman who is a person with feelings "the female" seems a little cold to me, like she's some object for your use. And bringing her up in a convo with your W definitely smacks of revenge-seeking.
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I didn't go out looking for anyone and to be honest, we are just friends
You really think you're being honest there?
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I know this sounds a little harsh, but I actually felt good knowing that she is hurt by it.
You're right, it's harsh. It's you stooping down to her level when you should be rising above and being the rock and the lighthouse.
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I am honestly ready for the D to be finalize so I can officially be free from the chain.
If you are expecting some sense of freedom from getting divorced you are in for a huge disappointment. You've got to get your mind straight before you're ready for D and that takes time. You are trying to "rip the bandaid off" and get it over with, but that's not how it works.
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I am trying my best to not rush into any relationship because I really do want to work and be a better person for myself and my daughter.
The 2nd part is exactly right. The first part, sounds to me like you're doing the opposite. And that will sabotage the 2nd part.
