Divorce because I betrayed her trust - I regret it

[BenB]

Dan, most of us here have sent letters. I have read thousands and thousands of pages here and I am yet to read about anyone writing a letter and it went down well. 100% of the cases, it's made things worse. I'm no expert so I can't tell you exactly why but probably the too little too late thoughts in their mind.

Also, you need to remember - actions, not words. Nothing you can say or write will help. Your actions is what maybe will make them believe you have changed. And even then it will take a long time. You just have to accept that.