Originally Posted by AnotherStander
Dan, things are moving fast for sure, I suspect she's got her parents or someone in her ear pushing her to end things ASAP.



I have a feeling it's her sister, some of her friends, and her work colleagues.

A lot of her work colleagues are separated or divorced. She even told me they have said to her, "Well I took my husband back and now I'm trapped, I regret it." etc. She says her parents haven't influenced her, and I do believe her. They have been very neutral and just said they'll support her with whatever she does. They are just sad about it and "hope that I can get better".


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020