Dan, things are moving fast for sure, I suspect she's got her parents or someone in her ear pushing her to end things ASAP. Don't help her along but don't interfere either. A lot of marriages end in divorce before starting over again in recon, so divorce doesn't necessarily mean the end of things. Sometimes a WAS has to divorce the "old spouse" before they can appreciate the new one. I've seen it a lot. Hang in there.
