Divorce because I betrayed her trust - I regret it

[Ready2Change]

Hi Dan,

You definitely need different advise than most here. Most are dealing with infidelity of their spouse.

Your W is hurt and angry and you need to rebuild trust.

Do not send what I am writing, but use it as a guild line for future in person communication . I believe you should script out a "What will it take" speech. We can help if you want.

She has since texted me to say that she is very sad. She says "It's all very final, I'm so sad it has all had to end like this, I wish things were different and none of this ever happened."

H:"I am so sorry I hurt you. I wish I could change the past, but I can't. I wish I knew then what I know now. I can't believe I was so stupid"

She has also said "I want a friendship from this as I care very deeply about you and your happiness" and "I would like to be friends."

I cherish our relationship, but if we do divorce, there is no way I can just be your friend."



What are your thoughts?