Thanks for the help Job!

Thanks peace, you're right. I got back into the swing of being a "family" again for 2 weeks, so the hurt has resurfaced.

He has started hugging me in bed, slightly more affection but I will continue as I have with no expectations. He is definitely cake eating.

I will take a look for the youtube videos, thanks for the advice.

I used to cycle which he is big into but I gave up when we had kids. I have just dusted off my bike and have taken up dancing again. Another old hobby. Time for my dreams to become a reality I think.

I haven't mentioned the job either at all. Patience, patience, patience :-)

K