[quote=MLCxH] Right now I am doing every other weekend Friday-Tuesday - so roughly 30%. And 50/50 for holidays and time off.
My situation was dicey just a month ago getting ANY time (without having to go to court).
I can understand why you feel concerned with the long gap between possessions. Have you given any thought to making it Fri-Mon and then getting them on Mon of the next week? Or at the least getting time with them for a couple of hours for dinner on a weekday in the week that you don't have them?
Regarding the custody time, what does your attorney say about your chances if you do go to court? If you try to change their routine after several months it may actually be more disruptive for them than trying to establish a new routine now that works long term?
Originally Posted by unchien
My W works in the mental health field. She is a smart cookie. If she truly felt abused and terrified, she would have filed an RO and filed for D. She *knows* she is bringing individual trust issues into this.
This seems like a red flag to me. Is your attorney aware of this?
