Sounds like the type of kid that will get picked on at school or on the playground. Then the boys picking on him will be called bullies. I'm not at all excusing or condoning bullying but other kids won't put up with his behavior for long - I'll bet when you were young J9 you would not have and that's part of what you are feeling.
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