Hi Lilly. Jumping in late to your thread, but I know how you feel. My ex was doing her best "girls gone wild" impression while we were still living together (and supposedly trying to work things out). Her FB profile started to change over that time and I would notice comments on her page related to photos/posts that I hadn't seen... IOW, she was hiding posts from me. At first I unfollowed her, but it was too tempting to look her up. Then I blocked her entirely, but found myself stalking her friends' profiles for remnants of her. These days I don't FB much at all and I feel so much better not having that nagging feeling of having to post everything that I'm up to for friends that don't really care anyway! I know people whose entire divorces played out on FB. You don't want that!! If you still want to do social media make a private Instagram profile and only tell your close friends. It's more special that way.


M46 W48
M11 T14
S11 D8
BD: 2016/05/27
In-home separation: 2016/11/23
Nesting: 2017/06/11
W moves out: 2018/01/07
W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12
I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14